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001/pub – FEAR - £1.75
Where does it live in the human complex – and why?
we inherited it from our ancestors from a long-time ago?
we did, is it still necessary to have the same fears in us
the ‘fear for ones life’ manifest
at a different level from the other various fears that humans
002/pub – ANXIETY - £1.75
someone has thought things through, knows how they will deal
with things, has organised everything that it is possible
to organise, and is settled to the fact that they cannot arrange
everything to absolute absolutely perfection - and some things
not at all - then anxiety is not at play
things have not been thought through and organised, because of
there not being enough time or resources, which has
prevented the desired result, it is still possible to feel settled
to that fact
- YOU - your individuality and uniqueness - £2.50
Your body, together with a soul and a spirit, is a crucible that
attracts life to itself, in which YOU, over a period of time, form
YOU form up from many different aspects:-
blood family and genetic make-up
country and environment
from 9 months in your mother’s womb
time of year you are born
national curriculum of formal education
religion (or not) and social, tribal customs
experiences you pass through
much, much more....
- SETTLEMENT - a prerequisite to dying? - £3.00
born, living and dying are all points of change in the on-going
metamorphosis, from before, to now, to after; all these within
the greater purposes of what existence really is. So, death is
not an end as we perceive it, but a change of state
is a physical law that everything must come to a point of settlement,
or balance, before change can happen. For
example: when an embryo is growing in the womb, at about 20 weeks
it stops growing completely; then comes the quickening, it becomes
(changes into) a human foetus with its own processes, and an enormous
spurt of growth ensues. So, settlement or balance, then change.
(You will know that the same happens just before puberty too. Look
for other examples - you can find them everywhere)
- LETTING GO - £2.50
If you are
facing in one direction, holding on to where you have been, how
can you face the other direction and move into it? Much
of the muddle in our lives is because we still hold on to the old
whilst already having moved into the new. Like the adolescent who
goes forth with a cigarette in one hand and a lollipop in the other.
Best to let go first, pause, look at the new, and then march forward,
free, eager and ready….
006/pub – FEAR, of not being able - £2.50
is such a magical affair, and at the same time it is weird and
difficult to understand the multitude of working parts
and experiences. Fear is part of it. It is one of those things
that the human is able to experience. Not only limited to the human
being but to organic life in general – animals, and even
plants and trees, are known to have fears. But yes fear is natural
to the human design. Perhaps the unique thing in the human is that
it can be….
- The Story of Helene Sofie… - £5.00
My story concerns
the loss of my baby girl, which happened two and a half years
ago, in January 2001. The feelings of shock, pain
and sorrow are almost not possible to describe. The grief for her
was so incredibly painful, that I experienced a sense of numbness,
alongside the many tears and complete emotional devastation, for
a long time. At the time I was not aware of how grief works….
- Mister Parkinson - £5.00
Are you willing to listen to my story? It is a story of bereavement
with different phases. In the lives of my husband and myself a
stranger sneaked in. His name was Mister Parkinson.
We asked him, begged him to leave, but he never left. In the beginning
he only showed his face occasionally and sometimes we even forgot
- FEAR AND THE CHILL FACTOR - £2.50
Fear is part of the human condition, and some of it is natural
and healthy, as it protects us from danger - like the fear
of being attacked that causes us to either defend ourselves
away, for instance; or fear of the dark when it is natural
to be wary of what cannot be seen or understood.
the fear we feel causes us to be rendered helpless and immobile – because….
- WHAT'S IN THE BROWN PAPER BAG? - £2.50
I'm about the
share with you a story who's telling is long past due. It's a
familiar story to most of you reading this from death
row. And now it's one that all of you in "free world " may
benefit from. This is the story of my first day on the row….
012/pub – WAITING - £1.50
What is Waiting?
It is that most precious interlude where you deliberately exclude
all extraneous influence for that particular time.
You will be
surrounded by stillness; not a ‘doing-nothing’ stillness,
but a lively stillness, that….
- DEATH CEREMONY - £2.50
dies there is a strong need to give what people call “a
good send off”. Why do we feel this way? What do we mean
by it? What is being sent off? It suggests that the dead (whatever
they might be now) are going on some kind of journey. There are
expressions like ‘Crossing the Great Water’; some peoples
put food and artefacts with the deceased to help them on their ‘journey’….
- Understanding Psychology - £1.75
Understanding psychology - theirs and ours
builds a psychology unique unto themselves - (psychology = what
we handle our daily lives with).
You are born
like an empty computer, and what you are exposed to (teaching,
parents, home life, environment, religious beliefs
- everything) causes you to fill that computer with your own unique
ways and means as you try to make sense of all that goes on around
you daily. Early childhood life consists of you trying to make
rational the mountain of irrationality that surrounds you, in your
own individual way. People may show similarities of behaviour but….
- YOU - your individuality and uniqueness (corollary) - £3.50
When a person nears the end of their time here, the counsellor
helps them to gather their life into a ‘whole of importance’ and
give it potency by a process of relegating, shedding, neutralising,
sorting, putting closure on everything that has not been dealt
with, that is left undone, or that is not of importance. It is
essential that every dying person has the possibility of doing
this with their lives, to make sure that the natural processes
before, during and after….